3. When a person has parenting issues


KIP offers OnlineTreatment Training, which helps parents to improve relationships with children, to have a restful and positive mind. It also helps children with psychological problems to recover and stabilize psychology.

It becomes helpless for parents when they face difficulty with their children.

- A person who is married and is parenting children
- A person who lives separately from her or his spouse 
and is parenting children
- A person who is single, but is parenting children because of personal reasons
- A person who is parenting children after a divorce
- A person who is parenting children after the bereavement of the spouse


Under the circumstances mentioned above, the parents will face challenges when children have problems.

- A parent who is worried about children’s low grades in spite of their hard efforts at school
- A parent whose children don’t focus on schoolwork
- A parent whose children don’t follow disciplines
- A parent whose children run away from home or cause 
accidents or delinquency
- A parent whose children show anger and temper all the time
- A parent whose children ignore parents and hang out with wrong friends
- A parent whose children cannot adjust to school
- A parent whose children have trouble making friends
- A parent whose children commit crimes or become 
victims of violence, sexual violence, abusive language, theft, etc.
- A parent whose children are addicted to the internet, games, gamblings
- A parent whose children stay in their rooms all-day


In addition to the examples above, there are many other circumstances where parents struggle in raising their children.

Parents can’t raise children like the way they have wanted. Also, they can’t be always a yes-parent to please their children, so they will be in a dilemma because children don’t obey their rules. Some parents are authoritative or permissive to their children. Some parents try not to cause any problems at present, so they negotiate with children. All parenting styles are based on prioritizing children over parents.

- I am frustrated because my children don’t like learning.
- I don’t know why my children don’t listen to me.
- It’s difficult when my children talk back to me because they didn’t behave that way when they were young.
- I think my children are going down the wrong path because they hang out with wrong friends.
- It’s my fault that my children ran away from home and got out of my control.
- I did my best, but everyone thinks it’s my fault. I don’t know why.
- It’s not wrong for me to say things for my children.
- How can I ignore when my children are heading for trouble?
- All is my fault that my children are bad.
- I just get angry and irritated when I see my children.
- I cannot endure being concerned and anxious about my children being at risk.
- I don’t know how to raise my children anymore.


There are many more parental anxieties besides the examples above.

It is not your children’s or your fault.

It happens because we don’t know the cause of the situation and how the mind and psychology work. It is no one’s fault for what happened, so don’t blame it on yourself.

You need understanding, not patience when it comes to parenting.
Children need to have their own mind and psychology as they grow, and their mind and psychology are reared and grow through the mind and psychology that their parents have.

There are big differences between parents and children in consciousness (experience, memory, thought). Parents shouldn’t think children will listen to them. Children have their own behaviors, words, and expressions stemming from their own unconsciousness. Thus, you should understand that your children unconsciously behave or talk without any intentions.

Parents encounter problems with children when they don’t know about children’s minds and unconsciousness. They should learn about human and unconsciousness. Otherwise, they won’t be able to understand their children. After learning about them, all problems will disappear and parents will find their peace in them. Again, parents are having a hard time with children because they don’t have knowledge of the mind and unconsciousness. 

KIP helps you learn the principles and mechanisms of the human mind and unconsciousness through KIP Online Treatment Training. Once you accurately understand what they are, you will be able to see how children’s and parents' minds interact and to solve all the problems with children. The training will bring stability and happy life to parents and children.


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