11. Do not take counseling to treat psychological disorders and wounds.
Many of you have
experience of taking psychological counseling.
- Taking advice from family, acquaintance, friends, etc.
- Taking counseling without charge
- Taking advice for problems of spouse's infidelity online
- Taking counseling from various online homepages or blogs
- Taking counseling for the treatment of psychological
disorders and wounds at a counselor's office
- Taking advice for the treatment of psychological disorders
and wounds in religious ways
- Taking advice through e-mails or on phone
- Taking advice that makes you be confident or tell you to
attack your counterparty
Besides these mentions
above, you have done looking and searching for information and various kinds of
advice and counseling.
All of these are
psychological counseling. Counseling can be done anywhere. Taking advice,
searching for information, looking for treatment methods for psychological
disorders and wounds, etc. are all considered to be psychological counseling.
The reason why Korea Institute of Psycho-education (KIP) tells you
to not take psychological counseling is that counseling cannot treat
psychological disorders and wounds but causes addiction. Those who have been
suffering from psychological disorders and wounds start having
self-rationalization through counseling and end up having addiction. You don't
want this happen to you, do you?
If you knew the
principles of wound treatment, you wouldn't have taken psychological
counseling.
The core of wound treatment is understanding
and interest.
At this point, interest
without understanding (building rapport) is the cause that makes psychological
disorders worse. So, taking counseling or advice from a person trying to
build rapport must be avoided; but the problem is that no one knows about this.
Also, the best
understanding of wound treatment is to interpret the principles and mechanisms
of how the wounds in the mind operate.
In order to know the
principles of how wounds in the mind operate, the principles of how the human
mind of a man and that of a woman operate must be understood. But how many
of you do you think you know these principles?
Here are a few of the
Theory of Mimind for example.
Refer to below if you want to check how much
you know about the mechanisms and principles.
- The human mind and psychology are different.
- The human mind and psychology operate differently.
- Psychological problems and psychological disorders are different.
- The mind generates emotions, recognizes through the conscious and
operates psychology.
- Males and females remember emotions differently.
- Males and females pursue happiness differently.
- The mind of a male and that of a female are different.
- Males and females get themselves immersed in things
differently.
- Male's love and female's love are different.
- Emotions are not shifted to others.
Try to see how many of
the things mentioned above you know. Also, see if counselors and advisors
around you know about these.
Well, of course, they
might say that they already know these things. Yes, they know some things are
different but do not know what are different, how and why they are different.
That means they don't know the principles and mechanisms of the mind and psychology.
What would happen if
they keep practicing counseling and advising without understanding how the mind
and psychology operate?
We have read and watched many articles and videos by other
counselors, experts, celebrities, scholars, religious people, etc., but none of
them knew about how the mind and psychology operate. Imagine what would happen
if they keep providing counseling.
If you get counseling
from those who do not know how the mind and psychology operate, you could be
away from your psychological disorders and wounds but will face more serious
situation due to the occurrence of a more serious psychological disorder. The
reality is that people getting counseling actually end up having addictions
instead of getting away from psychological pain.
Therefore, We, KIP,
firmly tell you to not take counseling. Do not even think about taking
counseling. Counseling does not treat psychological disorders and wounds but
only causes more serious psychological disorders through self-rationalization.
KIP knows well about the harmful and reverse
effects of counseling more than anyone; thus, we had no other choice than
developing treatment training methods. As we completed the development of
Online Treatment Training, we stopped providing psychological counseling.
If you want to treat
your psychological disorders and wounds and live happily, take Online Treatment
Training instead of counseling. Do not waste your time, money, and effort for
counseling that is useless. The more you hesitate, the worse your psychological
disorder would become.
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