12. Serious errors in psychological counseling and its problems

Most people try to get counseling if they cannot endure a hard time caused by psychological problems or problems in human relationships. Counseling is this much well-known to us; many people want to be counselors; due to this, various certifications for counseling, not verified sometimes, exist, which is also problematic.

You must know the seriousness of errors and problems caused by counseling because it operates deep wounds that generate serious psychological disorders.

How many in this world do you think there are with the same memory as you do?

There's none.

Your thoughts are based on your memory. Then, how many do you think there are who think the same way as you do?

There is nobody with the same thoughts as you do.

The pain you feel when you think about your wounds remembered in you is just your thoughts generated by your memory. Nobody in this world has the same wounds you have. Your wounds are only yours that only you remember and think about.

Then, let's say you are trying to get counseling from a counselor to treat the wounds remembered in you. Others like friends and acquaintances are the same.

What you can do with counselors is to learn knowledge about psychology and counseling because they have expertise in psychology and counseling.

1. Do you think it is necessary to build rapport with your counselor when taking counseling?

Why do you think you need your counselor to sympathize with you? Why do you need the counselor's interest (consolation) and encouragement?

Counselors have knowledge about psychology and counseling, not the memory and thoughts that are the same as yours. Do you still think building rapport is necessary for counseling?

What counselors need to do and can do is to let you know the knowledge about psychology and counseling, but they provide you counseling to change your memory and thoughts about your wounds by rationalizing with suppression and compulsion. Then, whose memory and thoughts are the memory and thoughts that are changed?

Your memory and thoughts are the same as your precious life. Changing them by the counselor's memory and thoughts is the same as losing your life and living another person's life.

Can you call this then treatment?

2. Do you think your family, your childhood, and your growth process need to be analyzed?

Have you ever thought of how much memory you have?

How much of your memory do you think you can remember it out?

Recalling the remembered wounds and feeling them is due to the operation of current psychology. If the current psychology is adjusted, you can recall and feel your wounds differently. That is to say, current problems are generated by psychological operations, not by the past.

Your family, childhood, growth process, etc. are all memory that forms your current psychology. Some are recalled, some are not. Like this, current psychology is formed and operated by memory from the past; the remembered memory is thought and felt as wounds as psychological disorder occurred.

  

If you return your psychology back to its original condition, the memory can be recovered as well. However, if the principles of how the human mind and psychology operate are not understood, the disorders that occur to psychology cannot be known, which results in returning the psychology back to the original state impossible.

In the end, if your counselor analyzes your past or wounds, that means he/she doesn't know how the mind and psychology operate and does not have methods to treat your psychological wounds.

Do you still think you can treat yourself with counseling?

3. What are the reasons for taking psychological examinations?

Various kinds of psychological examinations such as MMPI, MBTI, Enneagram, etc. exist. You might already have taken these psychological examinations.

Problems in the present are generated by psychological operations; oppositely saying, if someone has psychological disorders, that means that person has problems in the present. However, psychological examinations are performed to figure out the causes of problems, conditions of the current psychology, etc.

Psychological examinations are performed because the principles of how the mind and psychology operate are not understood.

Psychological examinations are done based on your partial memories only; due to this, it is impossible to find out the current psychological condition. Psychological examinations make you and your counselors have prejudice on your memories. Counselors cannot tell you what to do to treat your psychological problems because their memories and thoughts are not the same as yours. It is a very serious matter.  

Once again, counselors performing psychological examinations are actually proving themselves that they cannot treat your psychological problems because they do not know how the human mind and psychology operate.

Do you still think psychological examinations are necessary?

4. You must think if agreeing with counselors and doing what they say is the right thing to do.

Your memories and thoughts are only yours. None in this world can have the same memories and thoughts as yours. It is the same for everyone. You have your own standards of thoughts whereas counselors have their own standards.

When you tell your remembered wounds to your counselor, he or she will empathize with you, make a judgment based on his or her standards of thought, and change your standards of thought to his or hers. This is called counseling.

Then, whatever resulted in, is it based on your own standards? or your counselor's standard?

Here is an example.

Let's say A and B had a fight (or argument). A is psychologically wounded by B, and so is B; they visit a counselor to resolve their problems.

Then, the counselor tells A what he or she has done wrong and also tells B what he or she has done wrong as well.

At this point, whose standard do you think is used when wounds of A and those of B are analyzed?

Whose standard do you think is used when talking about what A has done wrong?

Whose standard do you think is used when talking about what B has done wrong? 

What happened to A's and B's standards of thought?

After all, the counselor makes A and B rationalize themselves to his or her standards and forms either suppressions or compulsions to them.

Can you call this treatment?

5. What are the meanings of treatment that counselors say?

Counseling that inspires clients to be confident, do exercise or hobbies, feel good, or study other things, etc. is what counselors commonly use.

They say they can treat your wounds when using these methods.

As you keep taking these kinds of counseling, you won't remember the wounds that you used to remember and feel and focus on doing what makes you feel good. Then you will say your wounds are treated.

If your wounds are not recalled and if you can get yourself immersed in other things that you can have fun with, your life is going to be exciting. However, you are mistaking your wounds have been treated because you don't know that compulsion that makes you focus on doing fun things whenever your wounds operate has formed.

The counseling you have taken to treat your psychological wounds actually causes an addiction (compulsions that make you focus on fun things when wounds operate are formed; feeling good when immersing yourself in doing fun things is a psychological disorder). It seems as if your wounds have been treated, but, in fact, addiction has been generated due to the dissociation of wounds (not remembering the wounds).

This is why a lot of you end up having addiction so easily by taking counseling.

Do you still think counseling that makes people not remember their wounds by generating addiction can help you treat your wounds?

Besides these 5 things mentioned above, we can prove serious problems and errors of counseling.

How many counselors not doing these 5 things do you think you can find out there?

Isn't it so sad that counseling cannot treat your psychological problems but generate psychological disorders?

These phenomena occur because they do not know the principles and mechanisms of how the human mind and psychology operate. Knowledge-based consultations are very useful, but psychological counseling is very harmful. It only makes you mistake as if your psychological problems have been resolved. Psychological disorders are generated by counseling.

Counseling that causes psychological disorders must be stopped.

Take Online Treatment Training instead.

With Online Treatment Training (Mind Training that teaches you the principles and mechanisms of how the mind and psychology operate), you will be able to treat yourself and live happily.