13. What it means to recover self-esteem with counseling is...
Attempting to simply recover confidence when you are in pain
and suffering due to psychological wounds and disorders can lead to dangerous
and serious consequences. What must be actually prioritized is to restore the
feelings of happiness through recovering self-respect.
Having self-respect is to have meanings of life within one’s mimind, which is
connected with xesmind. It is also to have values of life pursuing
self-actualization. It would be ideal for the treatment of wounds in mind to be
proceeded being accompanied by pursuing and keeping your career for
self-actualization.
Therefore,
the priority in the treatment of psychological disorders is not wounds treatment.
If wounds are not treated properly, xes and mind will all collapse; the more
serious problem is that none of the experts know about this. Counselors need to
stop mistaking their knowledge treatment methods. Xes will operate first if
wound treatment is done first. Providing counseling without understanding the
principles of how the mind operates results in very dangerous outcomes.
So, what Korea Institute
of Psycho-education does when providing Online Treatment Training is to focus
on our clients’ self-actualization shut then out from others so that their xes
and mind won’t operate instead of treating their wounds. This method is not
something you can even think about if you do not know how the mind and the
unconscious operate.
Focusing on
self-actualization, if you start your wounds treatment after shutting yourself
out from relationships with others, promises and trust will be recovered. You
can think whether you will divorce or live happily. Your psychological
disorders and wounds won’t be treated if you think about and focus on divorce
and happiness first.
Like this, treatment of
psychological disorders and wounds requires very skillful and high-level
treatment techniques, but we have never seen counselors applying these
accurately, which is very sad.
Attempts to restore confidence without considering other
factors may lead to inappropriate activation of xesmind, which in turn may
cause you to lose feelings of happiness along with the development of serious
psychological disorders.
Counselors
telling their clients suffering from their psychological disorders and wounds
to recover their self-respect only result in reverse effects, making the
clients’ lives and their destroyed and unhappy.
It is impossible to
treat psychological disorders and wounds only with knowledge. Without
accurately understanding the principles of how the mind and the unconscious
operate and without treatment ability through numerous clinics, counseling only
results in reverse effects.
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