글

9. Problems of psychological counseling that does not meet the purposes of counseling

People look for counseling to treat their psychological disorders and wounds and to live happily. So, counselors must help their clients to treat their psychological wounds and disorders and to live happily. [purpose of psychological counseling] 1. resolving psychological problems & treating psychological disorders 2. treating psychological wounds 3. making clients to form the ability of happiness However, the reality is...counseling does not meet these purposes. Whether counselors can perform and provide counseling that meets these purposes or not is an important matter. Those who are suffering from psychological disorders and wounds try their best to treat themselves. They rely on counselors to resolve their problems, but problems cannot be resolved by counseling. Even Korea Institute of Psycho-education (KIP) performed counseling to our clients for a long time. Psychological disorders and wounds cannot be treated by counseling based on...

10. How come psychological disorders and wounds are not treated with counseling?

The reason why Korea Institute of Psycho-education is changing treatment methods from counseling, which has been done for the past 20 years, to Online Treatment Training is that it has been proved that treatment of psychological disorders and wounds is very difficult to be done with counseling . After the completion of the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind, we have realized that psychological disorders and wounds cannot be treated by counseling when as we accurately understood how the human mind and psychology operate.  We have helped many of you to live happily after treating your psychological disorders and wounds with counseling, but we continually tried our best to develop new treatment techniques and methods due to weaknesses of counseling that requires much time and cost. Starting from 10 years ago, KIP has performed treatment training along with counseling; we have been able to decrease the number of counseling we provided by modifying treatment training 5...

11. Do not take counseling to treat psychological disorders and wounds.

Many of you have experience of taking psychological counseling. - Taking advice from family, acquaintance, friends, etc. - Taking counseling without charge - Taking advice for problems of spouse's infidelity online - Taking counseling from various online homepages or blogs - Taking counseling for the treatment of psychological disorders and wounds at a counselor's office - Taking advice for the treatment of psychological disorders and wounds in religious ways - Taking advice through e-mails or on phone - Taking advice that makes you be confident or tell you to attack your counterparty Besides these mentions above, you have done looking and searching for information and various kinds of advice and counseling. All of these are psychological counseling. Counseling can be done anywhere. Taking advice, searching for information, looking for treatment methods for psychological disorders and wounds, etc. are all considered to ...

12. Serious errors in psychological counseling and its problems

Most people try to get counseling if they cannot endure a hard time caused by psychological problems or problems in human relationships. Counseling is this much well-known to us; many people want to be counselors; due to this, various certifications for counseling, not verified sometimes, exist, which is also problematic. You must know the seriousness of errors and problems caused by counseling because it operates deep wounds that generate serious psychological disorders. How many in this world do you think there are with the same memory as you do? There's none. Your thoughts are based on your memory. Then, how many do you think there are who think the same way as you do? There is nobody with the same thoughts as you do. The pain you feel when you think about your wounds remembered in you is just your thoughts generated by your memory. Nobody in this world has the same wounds you have. Your wounds are only yours that only you remember and think about. Then...

13. What it means to recover self-esteem with counseling is...

Attempting to simply recover confidence when you are in pain and suffering due to psychological wounds and disorders can lead to dangerous and serious consequences. What must be actually prioritized is to restore the feelings of happiness through recovering self-respect. Having self-respect is to have meanings of life within one ’ s mimind, which is connected with xesmind. It is also to have values of life pursuing self-actualization. It would be ideal for the treatment of wounds in mind to be proceeded being accompanied by pursuing and keeping your career for self-actualization.  Therefore, the priority in the treatment of psychological disorders is not wounds treatment. If wounds are not treated properly, xes and mind will all collapse; the more serious problem is that none of the experts know about this. Counselors need to stop mistaking their knowledge treatment methods. Xes will operate first if wound treatment is done first. Providing counseling without understandin...

14.What it means to become happy after taking counseling is...

You can see many people around you saying that they have become comfortable and happy after their psychological disorders and wounds are treated with counseling. However, whether their psychological disorders and wounds have been treated or not is doubtful. They might be suppressing their wounds, or their problems might have become another psychological disorder, making them feel as if their wounds have been treated. Accurate analysis is needed. There are many cases that some of you believe your wounds have been treated because your relationships with others have become good and harmonious, but you must think about what you would do if you have problems again due to pain caused by psychological disorders and wounds. In a state of psychological disorder, the emotion of the wound operates by the unconscious, and the expression of the wound is repeated several times, not once. If you continue counseling in that state, it might seem as if your psychological disorder is treate...

15. Online communities of those wanting wound treatment and psychological treatment are very dangerous.

[The purpose of writing this is to let you know some common points that online communities where people gather for psychological treatment have. It is because we have seen so many people visiting KIP for Online Treatment Training live unhappily due to worsened psychology by sharing their stories and taking advice/counseling from others through online communities.] There are numerous online communities of people wanting wound treatment and psychological treatment on many websites and through social media. Most of these communities were created by those who want to share their stories, console each other, and overcome (or treat) psychological problems and wounds. The purpose of creating communities like these is good because people can be encouraged to resolve their psychological problems or treat their psychological wounds by help and consolation from others. Women suffering from various psychological problems and disorders Men suffering from various psychological proble...